The marriage relationship

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The marriage relationship

Husbands and wives’ not happy at home with what is going on within there relationships because it seems like sometimes both of them do not want to let go of the past relationships because there was something there that they don’t have within the new relationship.

For a couple to settle within their new relationship there has to be an understanding of what each other’s job is within there relationship and family problems that come up.

Once you understand what is need from you both there will come an understanding of what each other’s job is within the confines of the relationship.

Sometimes you can learn from your parents what they have between them and sometimes you cannot learn from them because they do not have the understanding of what is needed within their relationship.

The woman’s job with in the home: her job is to make the house into a home to raise her children. To provide their needs from day to day. To feed then, to keep the clean, to make sure they don’t get into too much trouble from day to day. TO keep the clean home as much as possible. For sometimes even for mom the house can become beyond her care with all the stuff going on when the kids get older somethings just cannot get done on a daily basis. Then also it is her job to take care of her husband’s needs to make sure that his cloths are clean and as much Special Olympics in the bedroom follies as the both of you can handle. The more time you spend with each other in the bedroom and just go out and talk every day you will never grow apart. Get a baby sitter twice a week and just go out and spend time together just to talk and do things together.

The man’s job with in the home: It is the man’s job to work to make enough money to provide the many things that are needed within the home. Then come home and help around the house to help out. So this way when you have kids she will really need the help. He kids will drive her craze over time and if when you come home you help out and give her a brake she will really love you even more for doing it. Even if it is just taking the time to play with the children for a little while so she can get supper or do other things that needs to be done. Even help doing the dishes once in a while, do some house work too. Then it is your job to take care of the outside of the home too. Mow the lawn, plant flowers, and whatever else is needed outside. The beautification of the outside of the home helps too. The more help and spend time together the more you will realize that the love that you have for each other will go deeper and deeper over the years because you have keep your friendship alive.

Both of their jobs: Is to make sure that the house is turned into a home. Where you work together to raise the children and to teach them the ways of the world so when they get older they will know what goes on in the world. Teach them how to spell, read, and do math even before they go to school so the teachers will not have that of a hard job to teach them now things.

Your Job to make money within the world: Everyone that goes to work will soon realize that when you work for someone they are the boss and they want a job done the way they want it done. When you are hired for a job you become a human robot to do the job that you were hired for. If you have questions about the job you are doing go and see your boss to get more information and then go back to work and do the job the best way you know how. Do not complain because a robot does not complain it just does its job.  The thing is you can be replaced with another human robot or a real mechanical robot. So do the job the best you can. For someday the job that you are doing might even be done by a mechanical robot.

Your Parents: What will happen to if your mom or dad or her mom or dad died and your mom or her mom cannot afford to stay in the home because there is not enough income to keep the home. Do you take them in and provide the things they need or do you find one of the other children to help out and take her or him in and or provide income so her mom or your mom can stay in the home. Then there is going to be in time 24 hour care. At that point in time you both will have to talk it over to see if there is a place for them to go and or stay with you. This time of life is when the trying times really come into play. You might say no or she many say no and will my mom/dad or your mom/dad lives with us. Then where will they go? Then you or your wife will at that time have to make a choice between you and her parents. If you keep saying no then she just might move out and move into her mom’s place to take care of her mom. This is when you have to work together to find the best outcome of where to put and take care of both your parents when the time comes.

Conclusion: No matter what comes up in a relationship the best thing is to sit down and talk about everything that is going on within the family and what to do about it. The main thing is to talk about everything daily on what is going on so you both know what is going on within the family.