How deep does your friendship and love GO?

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For one thing we tend to find someone that we might be interested in and would like to get to know. If you hit it off and then start to spend time together and get to know each other and become good friends and then later on with about 4 to 6 months you decide to get married and start a family and have children. Things seem to be fine until you have children. Then all the woman’s time is spent pretty much with the children. Then the mans time is spent working more time to pay the bills that seem to pile up even more now. Then you start to grow apart and even tho you care about each other you do not spend enough time together to keep the friendship going. As time goes by you see each other from time to time and maybe even do some things together with the kids. Then as time goes on you start to grow more and more apart. Now is the time when your relationship and your friendship is getting close to nonexistent. You just go about your day doing the things that need to done around the house and he is working more and more. Then one day he said he is leaving and will not be back. Then you wonder what happened or you find out that he has a girlfriend someplace he had been seeing for a long time. This is when your friendship is over and your marriage for now your trust for each other is over. When the trust is gone so is the friendship and your marriage. For once either of you cheats the love is over for that one and even though the friendship is still there but now it really is not friendship but a room mate that lives with you.

Now for a marriage to work and last is you both have to spend time together like when you was dating and spent as much time doing things together as you can. Where you both went wrong was you did not still have 3 date nights a week just to spend time with each other without the kids or anyone else around just the two of you. To stay married you have to stay good friends and spend as much time together as you can to become real good friends. You get married to have children with marriage comes closeness and living together. If you see each other for under 6 months and have sex then the courtship and friendship has come to a holt and your marriage has begun.

Even tho you are not marred as of yet it still has begun. The friendship comes first and get to know each other really good and come to trust each other and become really good friends first and then concider getting married to start a family. Once married and move in together and then get really close and have children and then have 3 date nights a week and even hire a baby sitter even it is mom. Go out and spend time together even if it go someplace and eat and just talk. Even go for a walk, eat, and just talk about things that has happened or things you want to do.

I like to tell everyone to keep all your family close is to have a cook out every weekend and invite everyone and have them bring something. Like have them bring a covered dish and or other things. Then in winter have it inside. You might want to find someone with a good size house so you can have it inside. The main thing no matter what for your marriage to work you have to become friends first and stay friends and to do that you have to spend time together outside of the home. Then it all comes down to how deep does your friendship and love go?